Purpose – truth or fiction?
– I don’t know what to do. Should I go to the courses of eyebrow artists, make-up artists and some other…ists?
“Well, that’s a good idea,” I say. – Especially if it arouses interest…
Not listening too much to my answer, the girl continues. – But in general, I want to help people.
– !?, – I seem to be a little confused.
– I want to earn money and go to study “healing” and treat people.
– Hmm, – I think. And how is helping to make people beautiful (for example, by drawing eyebrows) different from treating them with something else? Is it not supposed to take money for this?
– No, he answers, – it is assumed.
And a question arises.
Then how do you know where is yours, and where is the far-fetched idea that it is right? And will it work for me? And will it bring me recognition and satisfaction?
It took me back in time. For as long as I can remember, even from school, I was constantly analyzing some personal questions of all my friends.
And then she went to study at … a financier (and there she happily flunked everything, except psychology, pelagogy, philosophies and related disciplines). Then she worked at Fin. Enterprises, she was only really engaged in the promotion of internal and external conflicts everywhere (although the position was not about this at all). And in the last of them, she got a high position by chance precisely because when an extremely conflict situation happened, the deputy. the director said: “I will not go to the investors to explain.” I took my briefcase and went home, and the next day I wrote a resignation letter.
And I went to chat and to be honest, I still don’t understand his panic. I was fine.
And my friend at work helped me consider the huge and long Ikseliv “sheets”, because I had a very unclear understanding of what to do and from the top management, it had to be hidden. And I lived like that until finally, by the will of fate, I didn’t get to be “treated” first, and then study to become a psychotherapist. Then it started spinning.
All this is actually me to the point that it was obvious from childhood that I could neither count, nor dye my hair, nor sculpt, nor draw (it’s just that my parents didn’t do this before, now thank God many people follow a different path:) my mother (an analyst from God, capable of multiplying two- and three-digit numbers in her mind) told me that a psychologist is not a profession, and if I myself am a fool, then I should listen to my elders. She wanted essentially the best, and at that time lawyers and economists were really in fashion.
One more example and I finish.
There, while studying at my first ill-fated university to become a financial analyst, I met a girl. Her mother sewed business suits, amazing coats and all sorts of things for work in the bank and beyond. This girl helped them upgrade, model, choose from magazines. We have been friends for many years, but what is remarkable, only recently I noticed that for many years I had unconsciously bought similar things when I saw her bags, jackets, jewelry. Then she studied with me to become a financier, then she also worked in a bank. Now she is a cool stylist.
In short, one can see one’s talent from childhood, it remains only to recognize and develop it, and not to deceive oneself with false ideas and other people’s opinions that it is more profitable, more fashionable and “highly paid”. Here is the epilogue: that’s right – it’s the way you have it. How does your soul want? There, money will also increase, because the world is not lazy to support what makes it better).
I was prompted to write this by a question from a girl in my viber group. (By the way, if there is a desire to get there for free mini-consultations, psychological Tarot and transformational Games, let me know)
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