It is interesting that in the previous article, the heated discussion is not about what it is actually written about, but rather the example that is given (How could she start an affair with a married man at the age of 20?! Where are her moral principles? On the witch’s bonfire! – timidly: “Maybe first for therapy?” Hmm … it’s not animals, you can “treat” a depraved creature, but then still burn it! etc.) made me think about these same principles in general and in the context of male- women’s relations in particular. Of course, a lot has already been written about this, but the topic is alive, and so am I, so I will participate. I will probably start with what is instilled in us from childhood by our parents and society, especially from the point of view of the country in which we live. For example, the fact that we have a really living story about getting married once and for life (one man and one woman in a couple) and a list of what is possible and not possible in marriage, then it can be diluted by the ideas of various gurus where, with There are also spiritual duties of a man and a woman, and also face to face.
And there are countries where you can have several wives, and this is normal – no complaints, as long as there are more or less equal conditions. There are also people who show with their lives that it is possible to stay in a relationship with those as long as all participants like it, and if there are children, then they are taken care of by society together, regardless of each other’s sexual preferences at the time. . There are many options and it is often a matter of habit, as it has been carried on since childhood, and then supported by the environment and continues (and harm in my opinion is more than good, as in the story about Santa Muerte). I will not write here about the fact that in our country it is customary to deceive each other more quickly – by starting another relationship in reality or virtually, when someone falls in love with someone, but chooses either to endure for the time being “it will pass”, or with his dissatisfaction and irritation from dissatisfied need to wait for the relationship to fall apart by itself (so to speak, “honestly” without betrayal). And I do not want to write about the reasons for which the participants of the relationship agree to this (for example, to pretend that they are not aware, to find excuses, hidden or clear benefits, to speculate and manipulate, to be afraid or afraid of karma and/or burning in hell, etc.)
Rather, I’m talking about another lady in our life, a “sister” so to speak of Santa Muerte, whose name is La Amor Santa – Holy Love. So, when it appears in the relationship of two people, a spark ignites, so say the particularly attentive ones. And when it happens, consider everything gone, the relationship will be! At what physical level or not, this is already the tenth matter. It is good if everyone is free and can, but often not everyone is free and not very able. And yet I will remind you – she does not ask. At least, clearly and with words. My belief is that it always happens in response to an inner call. Whether or not a person is aware of his or her problems. In general, everything except the meeting is not her problem. And in general, it’s not a problem at all, if you figure it out. In short, the world turned upside down, no one supposedly expected what to do, the guard … And here, in my opinion, if you don’t panic, you can see where a failure has occurred in life. Where do I go off my path, where is the balance broken, how dear to me are those who are with me, are they with me, or just nearby? As much as I respect, care and value them and their path not only in the context of my needs. And so that truthfully and in an adult way “to the blood”.
To tell as if boldly (even if with the fifth resounding attempt), sincerely (even when you want to run away with a tail), to trust and trust in order to hear the answer, to find out what is really between us, so that together or separately, but honestly. I believe that La Amor Santa comes only to these and only when the time is right. She is just a marker, a deadline, if you will. Then to each according to needs and from each according to opportunities. It is at such moments that the husk falls off, the soul is cleansed, life orientations are readjusted, and important things are created. Although I cannot call them principles. Faster than new vectors. Which includes awareness, and feelings are still unknown, and feelings are sharpened on the edge, and choices are somewhere invisible. And only after living and grinding them, with your pain and tears, despair and work, courage and conscience, a new person and new relationships grow, or a complete transformation of existing ones like a lotus growing out of dirt.
